I posted something close to the following on a friend’s Facebook wall, then decided it was practically a poem.

PARENTING AS A BIOLOGIST

Genetics is real.

Genetics is powerful.

Yet genetics is almost useless as a lens on parenting.

(Unless your kid has a well-studied genetic disorder,

In which case you can read the relevant literature.)

I often think, “This boy is nothing like me OR his mother!”

It’s as if our genes have betrayed us.

But don’t I know better?

Don’t I know, deep down,

My sweet peas are not just Mendelian,

Not just green or yellow,

Not just tall or short?

Don’t I know my main job is

To tend the soil?

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